EGO drama BS in the communities

I have been watching the new "Pose" about the black LGBTQ community in the 80's-90's & like the VC the have houses and full of too much ego and fashion BS. Its pretty bad that most communities trash each other with there ego and drama while we should bring each other up supporting each other because the rest of the world does it to each other enough! Of the communities I am (Vamp, Pagan, Goth) only one of them, the pagan community, doesn't play the dress up game and bring you down because of the way you look or are. The worst of them however by far is the Vampire Community...